Okay, so, I had this problem. My best friend’s birthday was coming up, and this guy, he’s got everything. Seriously, everything. I mean, what do you get for someone who seemingly has it all? I was totally stumped. I spent days, maybe even weeks, scrolling through websites, looking at stuff. All kinds of stuff, you know? Fancy gadgets, expensive clothes, you name it. Nothing felt right. Everything seemed, well, kinda pointless, given he already had a better version of whatever I looked at.

I even looked at some really weird things. Custom-made jewelry, a Bluetooth speaker, those fancy pens, or a restored camera. But those things were not his style. So I began to think over, what else could I give him? Then it hit me, a good gift should be memorable and meaningful.
So, I started thinking, what does he really value? And I realized, it’s not about the stuff. It’s about time together, shared experiences, you know? That’s what truly matters to him. He’s always saying how he wants to spend more quality time with the people he cares about.
So, instead of buying another “thing,” I decided to give him an experience. I thought about his interests, and I knew he’d always wanted to try rock climbing. I did a little research, found a great local climbing gym, and booked a session for the two of us. I even got us matching climbing shoes, just for a bit of fun. We were like a couple of professionals.
- First, I picked a date and booked a two-hour introductory course at the climbing gym.
- Then, I created a handmade “gift certificate” for the climbing session. I put it in a nice box.
- Finally, on his birthday, I gave him the box. He was surprised, obviously.
The day of the climbing session arrived, and it was awesome! We learned the basics, fell a bunch of times (safely, of course!), and just had a blast. It was definitely more memorable than another gadget gathering dust on a shelf. He said it was the best birthday gift ever. And honestly, spending that time with him, doing something new and exciting, was pretty great for me, too.
So, the lesson learned here? When you’re trying to find a gift for someone who has everything, forget the material stuff. Think about what really matters to them and create an experience. Give the gift of your time. It doesn’t have to be expensive or extravagant, just something you can enjoy together. It could be as simple as a home-cooked meal followed by a movie night or a hike in a nearby park. The important thing is the shared experience and the memories you make.

Tips from My Experience
Here’s what I figured out from this whole gift-giving adventure:
- Think about their interests. What do they love to do? What have they always wanted to try?
- Plan something together. It could be an activity, a trip, or even just a dedicated block of time to hang out.
- Make it personal. A handmade card or a small, related gift can add a special touch.
- Don’t be afraid to be different. The best gifts are often the ones that are unexpected and unique.
- Focus on the experience. It’s the memories that last, not the things.
I hope this helps some of you. I did have some hard time finding gifts for someone who has everything. Giving someone you love an experience is a good way to go.